In the fediverse since 2017. I mostly talk sports. If something on the internet doesn’t spark joy, mute it.

Do not yell at me simply because I am in front of you and the people responsible for the problems are not. It is extremely unpleasant.

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  • It’s definitely the case the fediverse requires a lot of specific, technical knowledge to really grasp, and that the onboarding story for new users is pretty confusing, especially since the most significant decision you make (what instance to host your account on) is the first decision you make, before you even see any content. It’s a problem I’ve been thinking about for many years, and still haven’t found a good solution for. Other some bland reassurances that “you’ll get the hang of it eventually,” all I can say is that every time I talk about instances, it feels like the scene from Mean Girls where Lindsay Lohan’s new friends explain the various high school cliques.















  • I wish I had written this. I think of communities as fedi actors that boost my posts, so when someone responds directly to my post or comment, I assume it’s a direct reply to me. Conceptually, I don’t see a difference between the tags.pub relays and the threadiverse communities — you are sending a notification to me when you respond to a comment or at the top level of a post. Folks are constantly complaining they want more niche communities, and then make it extremely unpleasant to post niche content to niche communities, and it is deeply frustrating and discouraging.