Victim of Communism

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  • I don’t want to be that guy but… that’s just because Conservatives skew older. And they’ve been skewing older for generations.

    The right wing propaganda machine is geared towards insulting young people and pandering to old people. Consequently, independents and unaligned voters and squishy liberals skew conservative as they get older.

    But we had this dynamic under Bush. We had it under Reagan. We had it under Nixon. You need to run all the way back to FDR to find an elder plurality for the liberal party. And that was only because of Dixiecrat southerners trading on progressive economics to sustain their apartheid social order.

    Bigotry skews older. 70s feminists become 90s Girl Bosses become 10s TERFs. Millennial rainbow techbros become Elon Musk and Mark Zuckerberg. Your parents go insane from Fox News playing in the background for twenty years.





  • even casual drinking increases your risk of cancers by alot

    Not according to the CDC. Binge drinking carries a host of risks, even if done infrequently. Moderate (ie, less than 2 drinks a day) drinking is generally not associated with negative health impacts.

    also besides alcohol is use to subdue a population from causing an uprising.

    I’ve heard both sides of this. Beer as an intoxicant reducing the population to drunken louts, incapable of self-defense. And beer as a social lubricant, capable of bringing people together for collective action.

    I don’t think the alcohol is the proximate cause, either way. Certainly, there have been a multitude of hard-drinking Revolutionaries and Reactionaries alike (Hoffbrau’s were popular with both Lenin and Hitler). Meanwhile, Prohibition as a public policy was largely used to harass the working poor and monopolize production/imports into the hands of well-positioned political insiders.


  • I truthfully told him that I don’t drink at all and I guess that was inconceivable to him because he started going, “You WILL drink. EVERYBODY drinks. Don’t lie and…” so on so forth.

    There’s a lot of social pressure to drink, particularly for folks over 40. My first year at my current company, it was very normal for the department head to take everyone down to the bar and buy them shots. We definitely had folks that declined. But those weren’t the ones he got close with. Consequently, they weren’t the ones who got fast tracked for promotions and raises and such.

    Not saying it’s a strict 1:1 correlation, because we definitely have a few teatoddlers in the upper wings of management. But it’s the exception more than the rule.

    There’s also a lot of status in drinking - particularly expensive wines and liquors - such that having a nice bottle on hand when friends are over is considered normal. So I can see why it’s frustrating to your dad, talking to someone who isn’t in that lifestyle and culture, when he hears “Oh, I just don’t do that”. Particularly, when he’s trying to hammer home how easy it is to go from “I don’t drink” to “I drank too much”.

    It never seemed appealing to me what with seeing people ruin their lives and act foolish, the odor, all the money people spend on it etc.

    It’s a popular social lubricant for a reason. A glass of wine or beer is great at reducing social anxiety. I’ve got friends who insist on a drink at big events. It’s that or pop a xanax.

    I also know a few girls who go from dead fish to horny af after a few glasses. So, when they want to hook up, they will take a few shots first to get in the mood. And “odor” can be a plus (for me, anyway) when it’s a petty scotch or rich cherry.

    There’s also an artistry to the craft of fermentation, such that it’s as much a hobby as a habit. I know a guy who brews his own beer and loves to bring different casks to events to show off what he’s made. And another who works in the industry. He loves to pull out bottles he picked up overseas and show off different styles, flavors, and techniques of manufacture.

    Then there’s just a general quality of pairing. My wife keeps a small wine collection, knows what pairs well, and regularly opens a bottle for cooking or to match with a particular meal.

    So… YMMV. But there’s definitely a big gray area between never drinking at all and being an alcoholic.